What are my rights as a parent to leave the state with my children? 15 Answers as of November 07, 2011

My husband and I recently separated. He is a long haul truck driver and we lost our house and are currently living with his parents. It's too much on them. My family is out of state. What are my rights as the parent to leave the state with kids to another state when we both have custody of the kids?

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Law Office of James Bordonaro
Law Office of James Bordonaro | James Albert Bordonaro
You are required to provide him with at least 30 days written notice by sending him a registered letter. If he files an objection with the Court then the matter will be set for a hearing. You'll have to show that you have a good reason to leave the state and the court may require that you pay the costs of him having to travel further for visitation. The court may even prevent you from taking the kids and give your husband primary custody.
Answer Applies to: Kansas
Replied: 11/7/2011
Bruning & Associates, PC
Bruning & Associates, PC | Kevin Bruning
If a divorce petition has been filed, you must obtain permission of the court to remove the children from the state. Also, you can remove the children from the state if you get the agreement of the father.
Answer Applies to: Illinois
Replied: 11/4/2011
Reeves Law Firm, P.C.
Reeves Law Firm, P.C. | Roy L. Reeves
Both Mom and Dad have equal rights until a court says otherwise. So, if you have no court orders limiting you . . . your only limitation is what you make it. That said, if you leave, he can file for divorce here in Texas and ask the court to order you to return. If he does this immediately, the odds are good, the longer he waits, the less likely the court is to grant the request and if you stay in the other state for 6 months, you could file there.
Answer Applies to: Texas
Replied: 11/3/2011
The Law Office of Kem Eyo, LLC
The Law Office of Kem Eyo, LLC | Kem Eyo
You and your husband have equal rights to legal and physical custody at this time. However, there is no law preventing you from leaving the state with your children.
Answer Applies to: Georgia
Replied: 11/2/2011
Law Offices of Arlene D. Kock
Law Offices of Arlene D. Kock | Arlene D. Kock
If you have what you suggest is a shared parenting plan, you should file your divorce action with a motion requesting relocation to another state.
Answer Applies to: California
Replied: 11/2/2011
Law Offices of Paul A. Eads
Law Offices of Paul A. Eads | Paul A. Eads
Ca has home state jurisdiction to determine these issues. You could move and be could file compelling you to return.
Answer Applies to: California
Replied: 11/2/2011
Patricia C. Van Haren, Attorney at Law
Patricia C. Van Haren, Attorney at Law | Patricia Van Haren
You must file a request with the court that you be able to move with the children or you must have the consent of the other parent.
Answer Applies to: California
Replied: 11/2/2011
John E. Kirchner, Attorney at Law
John E. Kirchner, Attorney at Law | John Kirchner
You don't indicate how you "both have custody" so it isn't possible to clearly answer your question. If you mean there is a court order that establishes custody rules, that court order (or the court that issued it) is the source of an answer about whether you can take the children to another state. If there is no court order, then there is no law that establishes an answer about what you can or cannot do. That means your problem, if you choose to move over your husband's objection, is what he chooses to do.
Answer Applies to: Colorado
Replied: 11/2/2011
Joanna Mitchell & Associates, P.A.
Joanna Mitchell & Associates, P.A. | Joanna Mitchell
If there is no pending court action, then you should be able to leave without any difficulties (you won't be breaking any laws, court orders or kidnapping your children). Always best if you have his consent though, as there is nothing stopping him from immediately filing a divorce action and asking that the court order you to immediately return the children to the State of Florida.
Answer Applies to: Florida
Replied: 11/2/2011
Law Office Of Jody A. Miller
Law Office Of Jody A. Miller | Jody A. Miller
You have the right to relocate with the children. However, it is possible that your husband could file for divorce in your current state.
Answer Applies to: Georgia
Replied: 11/2/2011
    Alfred Law Firm
    Alfred Law Firm | Janice Alfred
    Currently, both of you have equal rights to custody of the children, so it would be best to either ask your husband for permission to leave the state or get a court order granting you sole physical custody and the right to be able to move out of state with the children.
    Answer Applies to: Georgia
    Replied: 11/2/2011
    Ashman Law Office
    Ashman Law Office | Glen Edward Ashman
    You can leave if there is no court order and for various reasons it may look bad later, so retain legal counsel before doing anything.
    Answer Applies to: Georgia
    Replied: 11/2/2011
    Dunnings Law Firm
    Dunnings Law Firm | Steven Dunnings
    If there exists a court order controlling custody, then you must petition the court for permission to allow them to leave.
    Answer Applies to: Michigan
    Replied: 11/2/2011
    Gary Moore, Attorney at Law
    Gary Moore, Attorney at Law | Gary Moore
    Given your circumstances, he might consent to your moving in with your family, especially given his long absences while driving long distance. If he consents, you can just move with the children. If he objects, you must file with the Court for permission to move.
    Answer Applies to: New Jersey
    Replied: 11/2/2011
    Beaulier Law Office
    Beaulier Law Office | Maury Beaulier
    Married parents share custody of their children. Although you may leave with the children, your spouse has every right to pick them up and return them to the home state. As a result, without a court order from a divorce or legal separation, it is a difficult tug of war.
    Answer Applies to: Minnesota
    Replied: 11/2/2011
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