Does a father who abandoned his unborn child have legal parental rights? 29 Answers as of September 19, 2011
The father of my child who left when I was eight months pregnant now wants my daughter. What can I do? No child support was ever given nor requested. Our child was born in Florida. She's 2 now. The father requesting to make contact and take our child out of state. I am married now.Free Case Evaluation by a Local Lawyer!
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Free Case Evaluation by a Local Lawyer: Click hereThe Law Office of Kem Eyo, LLC | Kem Eyo
The rules regarding parental rights depends on your state. You stated that your child was born in Florida, but did not identify where you currently reside. In Georgia, a father does not have any parental rights unless he was married to the mother when the child was conceived, was married to the mother when the child was born, or legitimates the child.
Answer Applies to: Georgia
Replied: 9/19/2011
Warner Center Law Offices of Donald F. Conviser | Donald F. Conviser
If the father has been out of your daughter's life for the first two years of her life, he can seek his rights through the Court, and you can oppose hisrequests through the Court. It wouldn't be a good idea to allow him to take the child, who doesn't know him, out of state, let alone away from her nurturer. If anything, the Court would only let him have nominal visitation with your daughter, with potential step-ups at later times. You don't have to do what he requests or demands. You would best retain an experienced Family Law Attorney to represent you in any custody or visitation litigation. Also, if your husband wants to adopt your daughter, now is the time for him to do so - the Court can terminate the father's parental rightsin an adoption case, since he has not supported or contacted the child for over a year. If your husband waits to begin adoption, he may lose the ability to have the father's parental rights terminated.
Answer Applies to: California
Replied: 9/19/2011
The Law Office of Cathy R. Cook | Cathy R. Cook
The father still has legal rights. The only way to change that is to have your current husband adopt the child. If you have been married for six months, he can apply for this. As the father has made no contact for two years, you may be successful. You need to speak with an attorney.
Answer Applies to: Ohio
Replied: 9/19/2011
The Law Offices of Robert W. Bellamy | Robert W. Bellamy
I'm assuming you were never married to the father. In Alabama contact the Department of Human Resources who will assign you an attorney. You will need to establish paternity through blood testing, the court can make him take the test, then child support will be calculated. Most likely he will have to pay back support. And when you say " I don't want the money" just remember it ain't your money, it's the child's money not yours. And no don't allow the child to leave with him until the court sets up the conditions.
Answer Applies to: Alabama
Replied: 9/16/2011
The Law Office of Erin Farley | Erin Farley
A father is a father unless his rights were terminated. I urge you to seek the assistance of a family law attorney. I don't know the reason that Dad has made this sudden turn-around. Maybe he had an addiction and is in recovery? Maybe he just grew up? Whatever the reason, know that the court is focused on the best interests of this child. Your little girl obviously is strongly bonded to you as primary caretaker. If Dad was awarded visitation, the court will create a plan to slowly introduce the child to daddy and to gradually increase his timeshare.
Answer Applies to: California
Replied: 9/16/2011
Beaulier Law Office | Maury Beaulier
A father may seek to establish paternity and parental rights at any time. He would be required to commence a paternity action if paternity has not been determined or a custody and parenting time action if paternity has been established.
Answer Applies to: Minnesota
Replied: 9/16/2011
Horizons Law Group, LLC | Michelle B. Fitzgerald
He would have to file paternity paperwork in your state (WI?) to request any rights. Until then, you have sole discretion.
Answer Applies to: Wisconsin
Replied: 9/16/2011
John E. Kirchner, Attorney at Law | John Kirchner
If there has never been any court proceeding to determine who the father is and to give him some rights, the man you say or believe is the father has no legal rights except the right to go to court to get some. Until one of you starts a paternity case and asks the court to allocate parental rights, you do not need to allow him to do anything and, if he takes the child without your authority he will be guilty of kidnapping. You should have done something shortly after the baby was born so that you would not be faced with the situation and uncertainty you are now facing; it will be best not to wait any longer.
Answer Applies to: Colorado
Replied: 9/16/2011
Law Offices of Steven A. Hemmat | Steven A. Hemmat
The biological father can seek legal rights through a parentage action. He will be held responsible for medical and child support. With a child of only two years old, it is highly doubtful that a court will permit him to take the child out of state. You should consult with an experienced attorney about this situation, particularly if a hearing has been scheduled.
Answer Applies to: Washington
Replied: 9/16/2011
Reeves Law Firm, P.C. | Roy L. Reeves
Both parents have equal rights until a court issues an order otherwise, so yes he can ask the court for visitation, he can ask the court for custody. What he ask for and what he gets are two different things. First thing is first, if he wants to be part of her life, you have a choice to make. If you deny it, he can and likely will tell the court later about your action. However, if you grant him access, he will tell the court when he gets there that you have no problem with him spending time with your daughter because you have been allowing it. My best advice is to hire a lawyer, sue him for child support for the last two years. See if he runs or backs down. You may even parlay that into a termination and adoption by your current husband.
Answer Applies to: Texas
Replied: 9/16/2011
Law Offices of Arlene D. Kock | Arlene D. Kock
You may want to consider a step parent adoption where your husband adopts your child.
Answer Applies to: California
Replied: 9/16/2011
Law Office of James Lentz | James Lentz
This is a bit complicated. Please see a domestic relations attorneyto discus whether you are the sole residential and custodial parent. You may be.
Answer Applies to: Ohio
Replied: 9/16/2011
Law Office of Michael E. Hendrickson | Michael E. Hendrickson
Before this alleged father can have any visitation rights, a valid finding of paternity of the subject child must be determined through a court of proper jurisdiction and then the issues of support and visitation can be addressed.
Answer Applies to: Virginia
Replied: 9/16/2011
Goolsby Law Office | Richard Goolsby
We recommend you consult with a family law attorney as soon as possible and discuss the possibility of a step parent adoption, along with all your rights and options. Good luck.
Answer Applies to: Georgia
Replied: 9/16/2011
Law & Mediation Office of Jeffrey L. Pollock, Esq. | Jeffrey Lawrence Pollock
Unfortunately, yes he does. Until you formally terminate his parental rights, presumably by your husband adopting the child, the biological father can pursue custody/visitation and you can pursue child support.
Answer Applies to: Pennsylvania
Replied: 9/16/2011
ROWE LAW FIRM | Jeffrey S. Wittenbrink
Under Louisiana law, the father may institute an action for avowal (to establish his fatherhood) at any time, unless another man is presumed to be the father. That is the case if the mother is married to someone else at the time of the child's conception and birth. The birth father must file an acknowledgment of paternity with his petition to establish paternity in order to have the ability to sue to be recognized as the child's father. Because the father sues to establish his paternity does not necessarily mean that he will immediately gain physical custody rights, or be able to remove the child from the state. The court will decide based upon the best interests of the child. Normally there will be a period of time for the parent to establish some kind of relationship prior to just taking the child. The father will more likely than not need to be able to pay child support, which you should request as soon as possible.
Answer Applies to: Louisiana
Replied: 9/16/2011
The Davies Law Firm, P.A. | Robert F. Davies, Esq.
Absolutely not, he does not get to take your child away from you. I can help you with this. Give me a call, make an appointment to come see me, and let's get moving on this for you. No charge for the telephone call and no charge for the first office visit.
Answer Applies to: New Jersey
Replied: 9/16/2011
Gary Moore, Attorney at Law | Gary Moore
The father is getting a little ahead of himself. Having been absent for so long his initial visitation will be a few hours at a time, not an overnight. Taking the child out of the state is not going to be allowed, under these circumstances, until he shows that he is trustworthy. Initially, the father's visition would probably be supervised.
Answer Applies to: New Jersey
Replied: 9/16/2011
Law Office of Rhonda Ellifritz | Rhonda Ellifritz
I am not clear as to what State is the appropriate state for venue, since this could make a world of difference. In California, assuming you live here, the child's best interests are the most important issue, not his parental rights. It is highly unlikely that the Court would allow a 2 year-old to be separated for any great length of time from the only parent she knows, to be sent to visit in another state. You may want to file for support with the local Department of Child Support services immediately. Then give the bio father the option, if your husband desires, of the bio father signing step-parent adoption papers instead of continuing to be responsible for payments.
Answer Applies to: California
Replied: 9/16/2011
Cody and Gonillo, LLP | Christine Gonilla
Unless there was a termination of his parental rights by you, you will have to appear in any action that is brought and assert your position as to what is in your child's best interests.
Answer Applies to: Connecticut
Replied: 9/16/2011
Law Office of Michael W. Bugni | Jay W. Neff
First, you mention Florida in your question. I only practice in Washington, and, therefore, cannot speak to Florida law. If the matter were in Washington, my answer would be along these lines: I assume that you and the father of your child were never married. If that is the case, then, from a legal stand point, he is not the father of the child unless property paternity declarations have been filed with the state or until a court enters an order finding him to be the father. Until one of those two things is done, he, basically, has no rights in the child. Once paternity is established, you should go to court to establish a parenting plan. This will deal with issues like who gets the child when, who makes what decisions, and travel with the child.
Answer Applies to: Washington
Replied: 9/16/2011
Ashman Law Office | Glen Edward Ashman
In most states, unless he legitimates the child and seeks custody or visitation in court, he would have no rights to see the child. If he files a court case, then you'd want to get counsel to respond. I would not recommend an out of state visit without a court order.
Answer Applies to: Georgia
Replied: 9/16/2011
Law Office Of Jody A. Miller | Jody A. Miller
Unless and until the father files a legitimation action in a Georgia court you have all parental power and control and full custody of the child and he has no rights to the child.
Answer Applies to: Georgia
Replied: 9/16/2011
Law Office of Cassandra Savoy | Cassandra Savoy
He has an uphill battle. I doubt if a court will allow him to remove the child from the jurisdiction at this point in time. He may get visitation, but it will have to be local and for short periods of time and maybe supervised.
Answer Applies to: New Jersey
Replied: 9/16/2011
Fox Law Firm LLC | Tina Fox
You have to right to tell him no he is not allowed to remove the child out of state. First of all, there is no paternity which gives him any rights to the child within the state, he most certainly shall not take her out of state without your approval. You can all the office to discuss this in more detail. We offer free consultations.
Answer Applies to: Illinois
Replied: 9/16/2011
Hochman and Peppler, LLC | Thomas R. Peppler
It depends upon whether he is listed on the birth certificate or if he registered with the state as the father under Chapter 63, Florida Statutes. Without a court order he has no legal authority to take the child. You should consult with a lawyer. There are several variables and he may have no rights or he may have the same rights as a divorced father depending on the circumstances. If you do nothing, you may make it possible for him to obtain contact rights through the court.
Answer Applies to: Florida
Replied: 9/16/2011
Diefer Law Group, P.C. | Abel Fernandez
Parents can keep their parental rights even if they do not see their children. The issue is should the court allow visitation at this time. These cases tend to be very fact driven and one case can be very different from another based on the actual events of your case. In your situation, the court might limit his time or want to integrate him to the child first. It is hard to tell you exactly what will happen and I would recommend that you seek legal advise for your particular situation.
Answer Applies to: California
Replied: 9/16/2011
Law Offices of Paul A. Eads | Paul A. Eads
Tell him no and you can request a termination of parental rights based on abandonment.
Answer Applies to: California
Replied: 9/16/2011
Law Office of James L. Miller | James Miller
A father has parental rights until a court terminate those rights. There are questions to be asked. Were you and the father married? Did the father know you were taking the child to California? Why hasn't the father been in touch for over 2 years? Now as to the father wanting custody. The father will have to file a paternity action in California, since the child lives here, and request custody or visitation of the child. From the info you have provided you may have good arguments for the court to deny that request. I would suggest you contact an attorney in your area. Many attorneys such as myself provide free consultations.
Answer Applies to: California
Replied: 9/16/2011
























