Is it legal for the mother of my child went to a doctor's appointment without me knowing? 4 Answers as of January 25, 2012

My Daughter is 2 years old, we have already established paternity. The mother is fighting against my custody claim by saying that she needs to breast feed for another year during the nights and cannot spend the night at my house. We have gone to doctor appointments together and all the doctors have said she can go without the breast milk. She booked a doctors appointment without my knowledge and went to it and the doctor wrote a note saying she needs to breast feed for another year during the nights. Is that illegal that without my knowledge took our daughter to a doctor? I understand in the case of an emergency not needing consent but I was under the impression that I was to be invited to all appointments. We have split legal rights for the child.