How do I go about trying to get full custody of my two minor children? 5 Answers as of February 23, 2012

You need to file a motion to modify the current parent arrangement and demonstrate to the court the problems you are having. You will probably do better if you have an attorney for this kind of case.

If the children express a desire to live with you, it does matter especially if the children are of sufficient age and maturity to state a preference. You should file a modification request and go to court to change the orders. You will also need to find the proof of the fact that she is unfit and present it at the same time.

Child Custody cases are fact-specific. Whereas you have indicated that your ex-wife won't answer your phone calls?and won't discuss anything in a "dignified manner", you haven't provided any specific facts in your question that would enable me to give you a definitive answer. The relevant facts could include evidence of your own appropriateness as your children's father, and evidence of your ex-wife's inappropriateness as your children's mother. If the children desire to be in your custody, the Court could hear their requests and reasons. You would best consult with and retain an experienced Family Law Attorney if you desire to obtain your children's sole or primary custody.

You can file a motion with the court requesting a modification of custody. As for what details to include in your motion paperwork, you should hire a local family law lawyer to help you craft the motion, as well as explain all your rights relative to the specific facts in your matter. Such info can't be provided in this Q&A format. If you can't afford a lawyer, you can get free help from the court's legal self help center. Information about the legal self help center should be on the court's website.

If you feel it's in the children's best interests to change the parenting plan, you should consider filing a motion to change custody. I urge you to meet with an experienced family law attorney to explore your legal options