Can my ex boyfriend get full custody? 12 Answers as of June 20, 2011My ex boyfriend has filed for full custody of our daughter as well as my son who is not his biologically. The judge asked if he wanted to take on the financial responsibility of my son and he said yes. The judge is taking this in to consideration. He also told the judge he is paying my sons child support, how can he do that? The order is for my sans father. Thank you for your help.
Beaulier Law Office | Maury Beaulier
It would be very difficult for your boyfriend to acquire custody of a child that is not biologically his own. To do so, both biological parents would have to be served wit the action and allowed the ability to defend against the request. Moreover, the law presumes a parent to be proper making a request for third party custody significantly more difficult than seeking custody of a biological child. With regard to the child you have together, a court makes custody decisions based on what it deems to be in the child's best interests. As part of its analysis, a court will consider any evidence relevant to its determination.
Answer Applies to: Minnesota
Law Office of Michael W. Bugni | Jay W. Neff
There is no really good answer to this question without a lot more information. Did your boyfriend adopt your son? If not, then, your boyfriend would normally have to begin a third party custody action to get custody of your son. Further, it would involve not only you and your boyfriend, but your son's biological father as well. The boyfriend would normally have to prove that both you and your son's biological father were unfit as parents for the child. As to your daughter, was paternity ever established? I assume that your boyfriend is the biological father of your daughter. However, depending on whether the issue of paternity was ever settled, either through declarations of paternity or through court action, the boyfriend may or may not be able to maintain an action for custody of her.
Answer Applies to: Washington
John E. Kirchner, Attorney at Law | John Kirchner
Your facts don't sound complete and you don't indicate where (what state) the case is happening in. The simple rule is that the judge can do whatever he believes is in the best interest of the children. But, the specific state law will control how he makes that decision to balance against your constitutional right to parent your children and to prevent interference by a non-parent. You need to have an attorney involved.
Answer Applies to: Colorado
Vermeulen Law office P.A. | Cynthia J.Vermeulen
Custody of children can be a complicated issue. While the father of your daughter may seek custody of her, under Minnesota law, there may be circumstances which allow him to seek custody of your son as an interested third party. Whether he is allowed to do so depends on the specific facts of your case. In Minnesota, a third party may have the right to intervene in a custody case or to start a custody case to seek custody of a non-biological child when the third party meets the legal criteria. You should contact and hire an experienced family lawyer who can advise you on your best course of action.
Answer Applies to: Minnesota
Law Office of James Lentz | James Lentz
I don't know what state you're in, and so I can't know your local laws. Before the judge rules, you desperately need to see a domestic relations attorney. If you cannot afford one, then contact the Legal Aid Society. Believe it or not, you're in danger of losing your children.
Answer Applies to: Ohio
Goolsby Law Office | Richard Goolsby
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Answer Applies to: Georgia
Law Office of Joseph A. Katz | Joseph A. Katz
He can file for custody of the child you have together, and he can even file for custody of the child who is not his biological child, but it is ridiculous. Unless you are totally unfit as a parent, he cannot get custody of your other child. He has no parental rights. I have had this issue come up and I laughed. It is amazing that the Judge in your case knows so little that she or he is "taking this into consideration". There is nothing to consider. He is not the father? He did not file a motion to terminate your parental rights (he would not be first in line, anyway... what about the biological father?!)? That is the end of it. He loses. He is probably just doing this vindictively,to harass you.
Answer Applies to: California