Can Immigration deny a marriage based on age difference and immigration status? 4 Answers as of February 16, 2012
I am a 32 year old Italian international student, and my 20 year old American boyfriend asked me to marry him. I would love to say yes but I’m afraid the immigration will deny my green card and separate us forever here is why: I didn't attend school in the past year, due to family financial problems back home, so technically I’m in violation of my status. We have only been dating for 1 year, and since we are both kind of broke ( he is 20, I can't work)I don't have all the "proof" of vacations together and so forth. Furthermore we don't have any romantic story about how we met, we live in the same building and he had a crush on me for a very long time, until he finally told me. We don't live together yet, his mother doesn't believe in it unless we are married, so no lease, bill or anything to show. All we have is our love, which is real, but there are so many bad stories out there. Also my visa is set to expire in January 2013, I’m afraid the immigration will look at that in the wrong way. What should I do?Free Case Evaluation by a Local Lawyer!
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If it is a real marriage and you are going to live together after the wedding ceremony, then you can go ahead and the proofs will follow.
Answer Applies to: New York
Replied: 2/16/2012
Law Office of Bijal Jani | Bijal Jani
Although I can sympathize with your emotions, it should be noted that in order for a successful immigration petition, you and your boyfriend will have to prove a bona fide relationship (through joint ownerships/bills etc) and your boyfriend will have to show evidence of being able to support you financially by meeting the minimum Poverty Guidelines.
Answer Applies to: New York
Replied: 2/14/2012
Wildes & Weinberg, P.C. | Leon Wildes
You have pointed out many of the weaknesses in your story, but my experience is that such as case can succeed if you have good legal representation and follow advice, as your case is truthful and sincere.
Answer Applies to: New York
Replied: 2/14/2012
Law Offices of Grinberg and Segal | Alexander Segal
Immigration cannot deny your case solely because there is an age difference and you do not have valid immigration status. That being said, unfortunately certain stereotypes do influence the person making the decision. We typically recommend an attorney for these types of cases to ensure you are treated properly at the interview. As for your concern over trips, living together, and how you met, it is important to keep in mind there is no bright line rule as to what evidence is needed. If you lack particular evidence, you must be able to explain why you do not have it, which you can. You must also look for evidence you do have. Most couples have more documentation then they think. If you are in love and want to build a life with your boyfriend, then you should marry. As for your visa expiring, you are already out of status regardless of whether USCIS takes any action. You will be required to show you lawfully entered the country. It will be apparent when you are out of status as you cannot prove you are currently in school. A person who marries a U.S. citizen can still adjust their status to a resident if he or she is out of status. The unlawful presence bars are waived so long as you have not departed the country.
Answer Applies to: New York
Replied: 2/14/2012




