Can I get a divorce if I have been separated from my husband for ten years? 31 Answers as of March 29, 2012
My spouse and I have been separated for 10 years. There is no community property, and both of our children are 18 and older. My spouse refuses to sign for divorce. Can I file and get a divorce because we've been apart so long?Ask a Local Attorney. 100% Anonymous. Free Answers.
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The answer to your question is most definitely yes. It is very important for you to file for divorce. Failing to file for divorce exposes you to the risk that your estranged spouse will create unwanted legal obligations for you.
Answer Applies to: Illinois
Replied: 11/28/2011
Reza Athari & Associates, PLLC | Seth L. Reszko
Yes you can. It will be much easier for you if you know where your husband resides or that his last known address is in the Las Vegas Nevada area.
Answer Applies to: Nevada
Replied: 11/17/2011
Goddard Wetherall Wonder, PSC | Brook Goddard
Yes. Washington state is a no-fault divorce state and thus there is no defense to a party's petition to the Court for a dissolution (aka divorce). The "legal" date of separation is an issue that can be very complicated, and analysis in that regard may go a long way in assessing your right to spousal support, division of assets, attorney fees, and other funds.
Answer Applies to: Washington
Replied: 11/17/2011
John E. Kirchner, Attorney at Law | John Kirchner
Yes. In Colorado there is no requirement for your husband to sign anything or consent to a divorce.
Answer Applies to: Colorado
Replied: 11/17/2011
AyerHoffman, LLP | Cara Lee Thompson
Yes, you certainly can file.
Answer Applies to: Massachusetts
Replied: 11/17/2011
Michael D. Fluke, P.A. | Michael D. Fluke
Florida is a no fault state and as long as you can swear that the marriage is irretrievably broken, you can get a divorce. I suggest you consult an experienced Family Law attorney to discuss your case in greater detail and learn all of your rights and options. Good luck.
Answer Applies to: Florida
Replied: 11/17/2011
The McDonnell Law Firm, PLLC | Patrick J. McDonnell
You can file for divorce on the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage.
Answer Applies to: New York
Replied: 11/17/2011
Horizons Law Group, LLC | Michelle B. Fitzgerald
You can just have him served with the documents, and then turn in proposed orders and proceed without his signature, so long as he had notice.
Answer Applies to: Wisconsin
Replied: 11/17/2011
Ashman Law Office | Glen Edward Ashman
It will be contested and you should get a lawyer, but yes, you definitely can get divorced.
Answer Applies to: Georgia
Replied: 3/29/2012
Law Offices of Arlene D. Kock | Arlene D. Kock
Your spouse is not required to participate in commencing or completing the divorce. File and serve your divorce petition and if husband fails to file a response, take his default.
Answer Applies to: California
Replied: 11/17/2011
Lawsmith, The Law Office of J. Scott Smith | J. Scott Smith
All that NC requires is that both spouses live separate and apart for one year. It seems you've met that requirement. NC doesn't require any party to "sign" for the divorce. You need to find a lawyer and have him or her draft a divorce complaint for you and file it and serve it on your spouse.
Answer Applies to: North Carolina
Replied: 11/16/2011
Joanna Mitchell & Associates, P.A. | Joanna Mitchell
You don't need your husband's consent to get a divorce in Florida. You should consult with an attorney.
Answer Applies to: Florida
Replied: 11/16/2011
Fox Law Firm LLC | Tina Fox
Yes you can, even if he doesn't want to sign.
Answer Applies to: Illinois
Replied: 11/16/2011
Law Offices of Steven A. Hemmat | Steven A. Hemmat
If your spouse does not agree to a divorce, you should serve your husband with a summons and petition for dissolution. Washington is a no fault divorce state; so long as you believe the marriage is irretrievably broken you can obtain a divorce.
Answer Applies to: Washington
Replied: 11/16/2011
Gary Moore, Attorney at Law | Gary Moore
You need only file the papers and have them served upon him. There no requirement that he sign anything.
Answer Applies to: New Jersey
Replied: 11/16/2011
Swann-Zwiebel Law Firm, LLC | Elizabeth Swann
In Alabama a divorce can be granted even over the objection of the other party with the proper evidence proven in court.
Answer Applies to: Alabama
Replied: 11/16/2011
Donaldson Stewart, PC | Monica H. Donaldson Stewart
You can obtain a divorce whether your spouse will cooperate or not - it does not matter how long you've been separated.
Answer Applies to: Arizona
Replied: 11/16/2011
Diana K. Zilko, Attorney at Law | Diana K. Zilko
Yes. You don't need him to sign off on anything in order to get a divorce.
Answer Applies to: California
Replied: 11/16/2011
Odin, Feldman & Pittleman, P.C. | Richard A. Gray
In Virginia, you only need one year's separation if there is no settlement agreement. In your case, you can file at any time since you meet the minimum separation period. Since you do not have a settlement agreement, it will be considered a contested divorce and placed on the court's trial docket.
Answer Applies to: Virginia
Replied: 11/16/2011
Glenn E. Tanner | Glenn E. Tanner
You don't need a reason to get divorced.
Answer Applies to: Washington
Replied: 11/16/2011
Law Offices of Stephanie Lee Ehrbright, Esq. | Stephanie Lee Ehrbright
Yes. You don't need his permission.
Answer Applies to: Arizona
Replied: 11/16/2011
Law Office Of Jody A. Miller | Jody A. Miller
Yes you can file for divorce under these circumstances.
Answer Applies to: Georgia
Replied: 11/16/2011
Law Office of Michael W. Bugni | Jay W. Neff
Yes. Your spouse does not have to sign to get divorced. You do have to file the pleadings and serve him with a copy of everything you file.
Answer Applies to: Washington
Replied: 11/16/2011
Goldberg Jones | Zephyr Hill
In California there is no requirement that you be separate or that you have "cause" for the divorce. The simple answer to your question is that YES you can get divorced. If you want to do it on your own, use the facilitators at the court house, otherwise call an experienced family lawyer and get to work.
Answer Applies to: California
Replied: 11/16/2011
Petit & Dommershausen SC | Tajara Dommershausen
He doesn't need to sign anything. You can file and when it is scheduled for a final hearing, if he doesn't appear a default judgment is entered against him.
Answer Applies to: Wisconsin
Replied: 11/16/2011
Beaulier Law Office | Maury Beaulier
You may commence a divorce by serving and filing a Summons and Petition for Divorce setting out the facts and the relief you are requesting in the divorce proceeding. Your spouse, the Respondent, has thirty (30) days to file a response to that Petition indicating to the Court where they disagree. If they fail to file a timely response, you may file for a default judgment seeking an order based on your Petition. If your spouse responds to the Petition, the matter can be ended at any time when an agreement is reached, or, if it cannot be reached, in a trial of the issues.
Answer Applies to: Minnesota
Replied: 11/16/2011
Michael Apicella | Apicella Law and Mediation
In California, it doesn't matter why you want a divorce, and it doesn't matter if you are living apart or not. If you want a divorce, you simply file the petition and related papers with your local county court. If your spouse refuses to respond, then you can proceed by default. If your spouse responds, but won't agree to settlement terms, then you can get a court order to finalize your case. Contact a local family law lawyer if you need help.
Answer Applies to: California
Replied: 11/16/2011
Charles Regan Shaw, PLC | Charles R Shaw
You can file for divorce because you are still legally married until then.
Answer Applies to: Michigan
Replied: 11/16/2011
Wolfstone, Panchot & Bloch, P.S., Inc. | Mark Brown
In Washington state you can file for divorce with or without his signature. The duration of your separation is not relevant.
Answer Applies to: Washington
Replied: 11/16/2011



























